What do you do when you are angry with your children?
When children demonstrate a particular behavior such as:
To annoy the younger brother
Yelling
To try to
To insist
To talk loudly with someone Baba
Then we become miserable.
We seem to feel that we were wrong. But we are trying hard swalloweth their emotions such as anger comes free solution children. The case surrounds us feel shame at being cool and do not know how to value them, who were errors? And how to work toward improvement?
If you are still reading this article and occasionally shaking heads, make sure that it really is, I would most wish you before you start taking the positive step in this difficult matter we were, and intention and the intention is constructive.
Have you found that according to his understanding and comprehension. And it is natural to be sad or sorry about that but try it, you can "force", "experience", no shame or remorse. Mistakes are an opportunity for us to learn and valuable experience! Praise be to Allaah.
You are ambitious, time and investors are ready to put in the work, it is excellent, valuable and worthwhile.
Children are provided opportunities for this new world, he would learn many new skills to establish a foothold in the fast-paced world. They are using the importance things through different experiences, causes and effects, different perspectives and their speakers, and thinking abilities.
His own mind, body and spirit is struggling to get accustomed to the effects of these difficult tasks. Messing with siblings he is going to try to assess the problem salung skills with himself, international style.
New things, new experiences Of course, it often becomes something unpleasant and bitter. They are in desperate need of something, he is a good leader, positive and constructive environment ...
Include the child's needs;
It should be considered,
By understanding this situation it will save space.
Get acceptance,
It will desperately,
It should be heard,
It will be a limited autonomy,
Find a safe space for people to make mistakes and learn from them.
To them all we'll have to bring my stop. And care for themselves and make a tolerant and health will be required. Some will have to do homework; Walking, consciously trying to sleep care, journaling and good food. Analyze your feelings.
To analyze and process their childhood experiences naksguar norris emotions of grief in a positive and constructive manner, so that they do not negatively impact on our present and dearest relationships. To talk to a professional counselor is very beneficial.
When it comes to our emotions swalloweth the child's behavior is your own break time. This time when we are more deserving of the attention!
Take a deep breath,
To space themselves out of this place,
Drink,
make ablution,
To speech, read blessings.
When our brain aymusnl be quiet and then come back thinking skills
"Cause and consequences"
Dynamics are understood. First Then sit down with your child;
It listen
The sympathy that
Name this emotion.
Then share your expectations with short words.
Share with "I" statements to positive feelings in words.
All this work will be possible to practice. Errors to value. If it is then that we should apologize to his anger by yelling children. to her:
Kids will trust,
This is not the hour to realize that mistake, but a mistake can be improved.
Every cause has a consequence. My behavior is affected.
So these errors, and try this practice is very valuable, learning opportunities, and by giving children the blessings God has given us the best chance of actually recycling pyryntyng. We all have made mistakes, like the descendants of Adam who, but these we shall adorn your mistakes and learn from these attacks.